Every family has its cast of characters, and sometimes, the mother-in-law (MIL) headlines the show. She’s the enigma wrapped in a riddle, sometimes channeling more ‘Mrs. Doubtfire’ than ‘Marie Barone’ but on other occasions, rewriting the script in the classic style of family feud anonymity.

For some, the MIL-daughter-in-law saga is a quirky sitcom trope. For others, it’s all too real, sometimes leaving us pondering the age-old question: “Is it them or is it actually us?”

Enter our 25-year-old protagonist with a heart full of hope and a dish steeped in nostalgia—her late mother’s recipe. Picture her at the dining table, proud and possibly a bit anxious. Now, wait for the sound of proverbial screeching brakes as her MIL demands an immediate eviction of said dish—a double whammy of food rejection and memory despising.

Did her husband stand up for her? Did he gallantly defend her culinary honor? Well… he was too busy laughing at his cousin’s punchlines to even realize the poignant drama unfolding beneath familial diplomacy.