Then they decided not to give the money to Eloise, and after a week later she called again after she learned that they truly gave $40,000 to every grandchild.
“I just found out that it’s true you gave the money to everyone else when they got married. Why didn’t I get anything?” She asked.
“We felt after your reaction to the wedding gift, it wasn’t right to go ahead and gift you the money.” The grandparents said.
“So, you’re punishing me? Is that it? Because I was upset about an air fryer?” Eloise pleaded.
“It wasn’t about the air fryer, Eloise. It was how you spoke to us, the disrespect. That’s not something we expected or can support,” Jen responded.
“But that’s so unfair! I was stressed, Grandma. Planning a wedding is hard, and I just snapped. I didn’t mean any of it.” Eloise said, as she was in tears.
“We understand that it’s a stressful time, but actions and words have consequences. We hoped you’d understand the value of family and love over material things.” Eloise said. “But you don’t understand! Can’t we just forget all this happened? I need that money, Grandma.”
Then Eloise threatened not to attending to Christmas, and said that they were excluding her. Jen said, “We love you very much. This has nothing to do with cutting you off. We just hope you’ll reflect on this and understand why we made our decision.”
ANOTHER STORY FROM TIKTOK ABOUT A GRANDMOTHER WHO DOESN’T BRING GIFTS WHENEVER SHE WOULD VISIT
DeeDee from the TikTok account, MoreThanGrand, is trying to give advices to new parents and grandparents. And her one post had caused a stir on the social media platform.
The grandmother stated that she was living away from her family, and she would see her grandchildren few times a year. She had decided after she became a grandmother that she wouldn’t constantly buy her grandchildren gifts.
She also stated, “I’m cheap and I don’t want to waste money on stuff that’s just going to be cast aside.”
But the main reason behind her decision was to make her grandkids feel excited to see her, as she didn’t wanted to be identified as the gift giver, and wanted to be the grandmother her grandchildren can receive support.
Sometimes she would read to her grandchildren, and play board games with them. She would take the game with her so her grandchildren would expect her return to play again.
Some people commented that her methods were not right, and some others had praised her. “I had a grandma like you describe to be… I thought of her as miserly,” a person commented.
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